Sunday, January 30, 2005

Do opposite attract?

I've watched the movie "You've got mail" for like, the hundred time.. :P and I did it again tonite..

In Nora's commentary, she said
"... If you ask people who is the perfect person for them... they will write down democrate, play tennis, etc. So they basically wrote down the description of themselves. They want to meet themselves ... "

Is this true? So I asked myself an aged old question of "Do opposite attract?"

Saturday, January 29, 2005

Follow your Head or your Heart

It is not easy to do the right thing (at least, what i think is the right thing to do)... no surprise here.. My head and My heart, why wont u guys just get along...

Should I stick to what my head thinks is right, even though my heart yearn for something else... After all, that's what intelligence are for, right?

Or should I just follow my heart, and set myself free from all the rule, and logic my brain set...Shouldn't we be true to our heart...

I never care about the society's rule so much, (especially the one set by tradition thai society), which is by itself another topic to be debated on. But what about the rule that my head set for me, should I follow them.

I'm afriad I will never know the right answer to this question... or maybe someday I will

P.S I asked this question when I first watched Spiderman II, half a year ago.. Think i will post it here today, since this question just pop back in my mind again

Thursday, January 27, 2005

The Hidden Cost of Being Good

Another good blog article

I read this theory of fun that basically said that something is fun when you are surprised and find a new way to solve a problem (whether or not you knew another way to solve it before). Or a different way to see something that you had seen before. That's maybe why fun fades away if you do the same thing too much, or see the same thing too often, unless you find better and better ways to do or see it. Once you've optimized to the point that you aren't finding new patterns or new tricks, it gets boring. Like tic-tac-toe. I like games (it talks mostly about games but I think it applies everywhere) where you have an opponent, since hopefully they will provide a long tunnel of new problems with new solutions or whatever.

Then Josh said something about a theory of intelligence that sort of seemed related. Intelligence is basically the ability to make predictions. People who predict better are smarter. Robots that can make predictions are smart. With some games predictions are easier than others: chess, tic-tac-toe, etc.

Art is most fun when it defies explanation. Moral stories aren't fun... ambiguity is. I think I believe this. It is fun to interpret, interpret, interpret, over and over, all the while getting closer to a “final” interpretation. Which of course is the reward which then renders the thing no fun (on the other hand, you can apply that interpretation to new fun games). Stories or movies or pictures that have one interpretation fail to entertain very long. That's why artists never tell you their interpretation, they never tell you what happens a page after the book ends because they instinctively know that it will make them mortal again.

People are also more fun when they continue to defy interpretation... once you find a stereotype or explanation that can easily predict future behavior, they aren't as fun. Not that it's a person's responsibility to remain fun all the time. In any case, I don't think it's about being entertaining, or the source of all activity, in order to remain fun. It's about avoiding easy explanation... having many sides. Being neither good nor bad is one way to defy explanation.

I think this might be the hidden cost of being good. You become predictable. People aren't as rewarded when they are around you. It's also one of my main problems with being around Christians too much... at least a certain kind... they are too good. Nothing surprises. I make it sound as if it were everyone's duty to keep me entertained, which isn't the case because I'm certainly not the most surprising person out there either, but I'm just trying to find out why I act as if I thought certain things without knowing why I was thinking them.

The Wisdom of Warren Buffett

This is a blog entry i copy it from another blogger... I repost it here since I think it's a beautiful wisdom, and I want to keep it at least for myself...

There original article can be found here


I spent 6 hours last week in Omaha with Warren Buffett. As I walked into the meeting I was pleasantly surprised to find Mr. Buffett dressed more like a scroungy sophomore chemistry student than the greatest investor of all time. It was an open Q&A session with some of my colleagues and me for about 3 hours.

Going into the meeting, I was thinking that I would receive a great deal of advice about investing and how to quantify intrinsic value. I figured he'd tell us all about "Mr. Market" and how his favorite holding period is forever. Then I figured we'd get around to his bet on the Euro or his belief that the market is irrational and ineffecient. Or perhaps the second richest man in the world would, I don't know, talk about money?

Total time spent talking about any of the above: Zero. Zilch. Nada.

Let's get to what he DID talk about. As a big fan of "Top" lists, I've compiled the "Top 5" things (prioritized) I learned from Warren Buffett that day:

1. Be Grateful -

There are roughly 6 Billion people in the world. Imagine the worlds biggest lottery where every one of those 6 Billion people was required to draw a ticket. Printed on each ticket were the circumstances in which they would be required to live for the rest of their lives.

Printed on each ticket were the following items:

- Sex
- Race
- Place of Birth (Country, State, City, etc.)
- Type of Government
- Parents names, income levels & occupations
- IQ (a normal distribution, with a 66% chance of your IQ being 100 & a standard deviation of 20)
- Weight, height, eye color, hair color, etc.
- Personality traits, temperment, wit, sense of humor
- Health risks

If you are reading this blog right now, I'm guessing the ticket you drew when you were born wasn't too bad. The probability of you drawing a ticket that has the favorable circumstances you are in right now is incredibly small (say, 1 in 6 billion). The probability of you being born as your prefereable sex, in the United States, with an average IQ, good health and supportive parents is miniscule.

Warren spent about an hour talking about how grateful we should all be for the circumstances we were born into and for the generous ticket we've been offered in life. He said that we should not take it for granted or think that it is the product of something we did - we just drew a lucky ticket. (He also pointed out that his skill of "allocating capital" would be useless if he would have been born in poverty in Bangladesh.)

2. Be Ethical & Fair

Continuing on the analogy above, consider this scenario:

Imagine that you were selected as the one person (out of 6 Billion) to create the systems of the world. This includes the type of government, social programs, tax systems, military systems, job markets, laws, regulations, etc.

The only catch was this: You had to come up with systems that you believed were fair and that you wanted to live with, before you were allowed to look at your ticket.

When Warren talked about this it made me reconsider the definition of ethical behavior - what type of system would you create if you didn't know what ticket you had drawn? Would you take a different position on some of the programs you are for or against if you were surrounded by a different set of circumstances?

3. Be Trustworthy

This may be a minor point that Mr. Buffett was trying to make, but he told a simple story that affected me greatly. He told of the Founder of the Nebraska Furniture Mart, one of his companies, and how she came from a poor Jewish family and couldn't read, write or speak English. She was had survived the Holocaust, spent 16 years bringing her family to the U.S. (at $50 per person), and grew the Nebraska Furniture Mart from a $500 initial investment to do $350 Million annually from a single location in Omaha.

She told Warren at one point that the way she evaluated people was simple: She simply asked herself, "Would they hide me?" What a great way to judge your instincts about whether to trust someone or not.

4. Invest in Your Cirle of Competence

Warren talked at length about investing within your circle of competence. This applies as much to entrepreneurship as it does to investing in public securities. One thing that continually amazes me is how much discipline Warren has in never letting himself get excited about a deal that he doesn't understand. He understands his weaknesses, limitations, and the types of businesses that he gets.

He said that it is crucial that people clearly recognize what they don't understand, and place their effort and energy on businesses or career paths that allow them to bet big on themselves doing something that they do understand. He said that it's "not so important how big the circle is, but it's important that you know where the perimeter is, and when you're outside of it."

5. Do What You Love

Perhaps the reason that we've heard this a million times is that it's true. Warren talked at length about how excited he is to wake up in the morning and to do what he loves. He talked about how important it is to have the freedom in your life to paint your own canvas any way that you like. He said that many people talk about how they are going to just work at a high-paying job "for a little while" and then go do what they love - he equated that to "saving up sex for old age." He said to "never do something that doesn't excite you or that you dislike."

Not the advice you'd expect from somebody worth over $40 Billion?

I only hope that as I gain success throughout my career that I can mirror the image of humility, charity, intelligence, optimism and justice that Warren Buffett represents.

Sunday, January 02, 2005

Time

Time is a pretty amazing thing...

Time makes you forget things you never think u would...
Time heals anger, pain, and sadness...

Time makes you remember things you never think you would...
Time makes you cherish good memories that at first was cloud by anger...

As Time go by,
you see things in the way you haven't seen it before...
and you rediscover things you have lost sight of...

It's a beautiful world after all...